“The ego will always tempt us to think that the breakdown of a relationship has to do with what they did wrong, or what they’re not seeing, or what they need to learn. The focus must remain on ourselves. We’re affected by other people’s lovelessness only to the extent to which we judge them for it.” Marianne Williamson

This is a beautiful quote for me as I am ending an engagement. The focus must remain on me. That is powerful! I find myself in my weaker moments going over there to his world and judging him. I quickly come back and whatever I am projecting I take ownership! When I am over in his business my heart is closed and I feel contracted. I may feel like I am justified and right but I am not happy!

I am committed to my own growth and being the most radiant, magnificent Goddess I can be. And, I am not going to be Her thinking about his lessons, or his actions! The only thing that matters is what is going on in my head and heart.

Often we want to put it over there. It feels easier and we feel that we are right. Well we are never 100% right. So, let’s say they are 95% wrong! We have 5% to get working on. There is always, always work for us to do!

If we are not feeling freedom, love and empowerment we are not in a place that we want to be in for very long! It is best to stay in our own business! What they do over there is their business. And, my vision is to be balanced no matter what anyone is doing around me!

Let’s get to work, I know we all have some to do!!