“A good relationship is not one in which the raw parts of ourselves are avoided. A good relationship is one in which they are handled. A great relationship is one in which they are healed. “ Terrance Real

Beautiful!!

I know we often time don’t want our shadows, dark sides, raw parts to be opened up. We often ignore and repress those parts of ourselves.

I used to think when I was perfect I would be in the perfect relationship with the perfect man. :) I worked really hard to be perfect; newsflash I am not perfect, none of us are. We all have our flaws, our wounds. And, when we embrace, honor and love them, then we can be healed through relationship.

What a beautiful image of being healed in a relationship. We all have a past, and we all have painful memories. These will come up in some way when we are in partnership. But, what would relationships look like if we healed each other?

What if our dominant intention was love, and service. And, we asked ourselves, “am I serving this person, am I loving this person”? “Am I seeing their highest good!?!” Often times we want to be right and make the other person wrong and let them know how wrong they are. (one way to avoid the raw parts of ourselves ;)

I have learned no one ever wants to be proved that they are wrong and bad!! I have committed to loving my partner fully today holding the intention of love and healing! Makes me smile to think of being this for my partner! He is a lucky man and I am a lucky Goddess. :)